assalamu aleikum wa rahmatullah!... i really don't know how to say this... but, i'll try my best inshallah... there is a boy that a lot of girls have told me about, and he sounds like the boy i would like to marry. But the problem is, that one girl told me that he isn't ready to get married... now i kinda think im love in his character and who he is.. what should i do? ... i really don't know what to do... i think if i do anything, it will be haram... help?!
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It is advisable to have a mahram approach the brother on your behalf. ‘Mahram’ refers to a blood-relative to whom marriage is permanently forbidden. Do not approach this brother by any other means as Allah subhnaho wat’ala said in the quran:
“Do not come near Zina, for it is a shameful deed and an evil path.” 17:32
So do not go ‘near’ anything that might make you fall into zina as shaytan will try his best to make you fall into it. Make dua to Allah to protect you form the whispers of the devils, and do what pleases Allah as it has already been decreed who you will marry.
And Allah knows best.
